3 steps to contact girls!

Man
Woman

By creating an account you will receive notifications by email

!

I am over 18. By clicking on this button I confirm that I have read and agree to the Terms and Conditions, Privacy Policy, Cookie Policy

Blog, 2017-09-05 Do You Date Outside Your Race?

It seems like on paper we’ve come a long ways in the past thirty or forty years when it comes to the topic of racism. Today we’re talking about interracial dating. I’ve always been a person to date outside my race and I feel quite comfortable doing it.

I remember being single and looking at online profiles of women and always checking whether they would date someone outside of their race. I would say the odds are pretty split, 50% will or 50% won’t. I honestly think instead of listing what race you’re comfortable with, you should just answer the question “Are you closed-minded?”

Whenever I walk down the street with my fiancé, we always get stared at by people. I don’t know if it’s a look of “Damn how did he get her” or “Damn a mixed couple!.” My brother married a Women of a different race and they also have a kid who always catches the eye of strangers. I’m a little biased, but I do think mixed children are the best looking kids as they take the best features from both parents.

Whenever I’m dating, I’m not looking at a person’s ethnicity; I’m looking for chemistry and a deep emotional connection. I’ve dated women of different races and some relationships worked, while others didn’t. Generally, we’re all the same.. We all want to be happy and be with someone who shares the same values as us. Whose to say a person of a different race can’t have the same values as you or me?

I grew up in an area where I was the only person of colour and I remember getting teased and picked on because I looked different, wore different clothes or had different looking parents. Looking back at that experience I’m proud I didn’t grow up with peers who looked like or talked like me. You know why? Because I learned to adapt to different situations and assimilate into my community. I became comfortable being around people who looked and talked differently than me. Skin colour was a merely a colour and nothing more. I don’t let it define who I am and I don’t wear it on my sleeve like a lot of people do.

I too often see couples such as East Indians just stick amongst themselves and not integrate with the people around them. They live in a bubble and don’t want to get out into the world and meet new people. They love to complain that people are racist or don’t understand them or give them the opportunities they rightfully deserve. My own East Indian friends are guilty of this. I don’t look at the world this way. I think most people are good and it’s just a matter of speaking to people in a way that creates a feeling of mutual respect and not preconceived notions.

My parents have friends who have older kids in their 30′s, none of which are married. Being unmarried in your 30′s and being east indian is uncommon in Indian culture. I asked my Mom why any of them weren’t married yet and she said her parents couldn’t find a match because they couldn’t find someone whose astrological sign was compatible with their kids. This is honestly the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever heard. Sure, certain people are better suited for certain types of people but I’ve dated women who on paper should be a perfect match for me, but in the end things didn’t work out. The same can be said for my parents, both of whom are on their second marriage.

You’ll be amazed at what having an open mind will do for you’re dating life. Maybe next time you’re on a dating site or at the bookstore, open your mind a bit and you’ll be amazed at who can come into your life.

Blog

Have A Chat Before Meeting Someone From an Online Dating Site
2017-09-28

Have A Chat Before Meeting Someone From an Online Dating Site

You're excited about a person that you've met online. You haven't chatted in live-time yet, but the two of you have exchanged a couple of emails through an online dating site. Things are progressing nicely, and you're ready to go on a real, live date.
Stressed? Have an orgasm!
2017-09-20

Stressed? Have an orgasm!

There is one thing standing between my being an anxiety-fueled hot mess and a productive ladyboss: an orgasm.
Why You Fail at Online Dating
2017-09-14

Why You Fail at Online Dating

Like it or not, online dating is here to stay. Online dating is a great way to meet plenty of men or women in a very short period of time, but a lot of people get frustrated and give up. Today I’m going to go over the most common reasons people fail at online dating.

Latest members

5184 online now!

Trinity87

Trinity87

Age: 29
United States of America, Michigan, Mount Morris
cla35071

cla35071

Age: 48
United States of America, Florida, Tampa
Intense_Toe_Lover

Intense_Toe_Lover

Age: 27
United States of America, New Jersey, Middlesex
junie

junie

Age: 26
United States of America, Florida, Miami
Giuliana9s

Giuliana9s

Age: 19
United States of America, Florida, Miami Beach
MinniieKyx3

MinniieKyx3

Age: 28
United States of America, Texas, Harker Heights
anna

anna

Age: 26
United States of America, Massachusetts, Belmont
Melanilopez

Melanilopez

Age: 26
United States of America, New Jersey, Union City
Cr3amycarmelK

Cr3amycarmelK

Age: 26
United States of America, Michigan, Hamtramck
dulce

dulce

Age: 23
United States of America, Florida, Miami Beach
sarahDwatergirl101

sarahDwatergirl101

Age: 31
United States of America, California, San Jose
bellesom

bellesom

Age: 23
United States of America, California, Los Angeles
desi

desi

Age: 23
United States of America, New York, New York City
love_kisses288

love_kisses288

Age: 26
United States of America, Georgia, Atlanta
keyshiawood59

keyshiawood59

Age: 35
United States of America, New York, New York City
elise08

elise08

Age: 29
United States of America, California, North Hollywood
kwesizongo

kwesizongo

Age: 34
United States of America, Washington, Seattle
Honeybfly1217

Honeybfly1217

Age: 31
United States of America, Maryland, Pikesville
pamelaolsen372

pamelaolsen372

Age: 36
United States of America, Georgia, Kennesaw
pinkleaf

pinkleaf

Age: 20
United States of America, Colorado, Carbondale
spaceman011

spaceman011

Age: 24
United States of America, Texas, Rowlett
Bradley currey

Bradley currey

Age: 18
United States of America, Oklahoma, Bixby
Gabrielemery

Gabrielemery

Age: 24
United States of America, California, Victorville
keith49isme

keith49isme

Age: 56
United States of America, New York, Hopewell Junction